Showing posts with label mr right. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mr right. Show all posts

Tuesday, 11 October 2011

How to Tell if He’s Mr. Wrong


Finding Mr. Right ? Sometimes it’s hard to see that it’s Mr. Wrong you’re having a drink with. While some of the signs are rather obvious, there are other ones that sort of get bypassed until it’s almost too late.

Keep a look out for these signs that he’s Mr. Wrong:

  • He talks about all the strange sex he’s had through the years and then tells you that he’s so happy you live nearby because now the two of you can get together for casual sex. (Seriously?)
  • He mentions during conversation that you look so young, and then quickly follows that with how much he loves young girls. (Should you leave immediately or call the cops?)

  • You’re in bed with an older, European man and having a pretty good time. Suddenly, you realize he’s wearing panties. He might just be kinky or he might be sleazy. (Since it’s hard to tell, you may want to use your intuition.)

  • So you’re out with a guy at a theme park and he wins a huge stuffed animal. You think he should give it to you or to some little kid but he petulantly refuses and carries it around the rest of the day. The stuffed animal has its own seat between you on the plane going home. (What a big baby!)

  • He’s got a low class job that he’s been doing because it’s fun for several years, yet he seems to always have plenty of money. It’s a good chance that he’s doing something shady on the side.

  • (You don’t need to take any chances with this one.)What about the guys that want to control everything you do? For example, he instructs you on the “correct” way to hold your knife and fork while you eat and demands that you start eating “his” way.

  • (Just because he’s from another country doesn’t mean his way is the only way.)On your first date, he takes you to dinner along with his mother. (Sure, a man needs to love his mother, but this feels more like a Mommy’s Boy.)

  • He actually POUTS when he doesn’t get his way. (Do you WANT to be in a relationship with a child?)

  • He makes snide remarks about all of your friends, and he’s not even all that careful about them not hearing him. (He’s already trying to control you by alienating you from your friends. This is sort of scary.)
Some of these are obvious and others aren’t so obvious. That’s why you need to pay close attention in the beginning when you’re dating someone new. If you notice something that seems a bit “off,” don’t assume that it’s nothing and that you’re just overreacting. That’s rarely the case. Keep in mind that when you’re able to spot Mr. Wrong early on, you won’t waste any more time on him when you could be out searching for Mr. Right. Do yourself a favor and don’t let new guys get away with anything that bothers you or makes you unhappy.

Tuesday, 21 June 2011

Where are you Mr. Right?


Tired of being single? Tired of all the lonely nights? Have you tried dating alternatives such as online dating and have exhausted all online dating tips but still nothing?

Is Mr. Right as elusive as the Loch Ness monster? What does it take to find Mr. Right?

Scientifically speaking, the odds of finding Mr. Right online is roughly about 1 in 285,000.

But love, like any emotion, is neither black nor white. There are no definite principles applied to them.

They are unpredictable as can be. No formulas or methods to be done to make the process faster or easier.
Wish it would be as simple as that, right?

The greatest mistake women make is that they think too much. They think of all the possibilities of a date going wrong rather than take pleasure in the actual date.

They have a fantasy date and a dream guy. The dream guy then sweeps them off their feet.

They have a certain criteria of their dream guy. When he doesn’t come to par, he’s crossed out of the list.

Come on! Life is not a fairy tale but you can certainly make your own happy ending.

Dating should be a time to explore new options, meet new people and experience new things. Rather than complain about dates gone wrong, isn’t it better to just move on?

Online dating does not have a hard and fast rule. It only encourages people to explore options out of their own comfort zone. It helps you meet other people outside your circle of friends and workplace.

Online dating only broadens your options. And although online dating is a sure time saver, you must also put in the effort. That increases your chances of meeting Mr. Right.

Remember there are millions of online dating subscribers out there looking for love. All you have to do is to just jump in there and let it happen.

Of course it wouldn’t happen overnight. Why not take pleasure in dating? The getting to know you part is one of the best parts of a relationship.

Let go. Have fun. It is okay to want to find Mr. Right but be open to other options as well. You never know that he might be somewhere you least expect him to be.
Serendipity, that’s how you should view love. Meeting a few wrongs would certainly make you appreciate meeting the right one.

Nobody has the secrets in finding the Mr. Right although many claim they do. Your Mr. Right is different from another’s Mr. Right so it doesn’t necessarily mean what works for you will work for others. So don’t expect it to be.

The internet is littered with online dating tips. However, the main thing to remember is, DO NOT LOOK FOR MR. RIGHT. Don’t let your search for Mr. Right ruin your chances of finding him.
When the time is right, he will come into your life. Just appreciate life. The more you look for Mr. Right the more that life passes you by.